| i'm sorry that you had such a terrible experience, but at the same time, i'm always so surprised when i hear people saying they wanted someone to take care of the baby for them so that they can rest.
when i had each of my babies (after terrible gruelling pregnancies) i didn't want ANYONE to touch them. it was a huge thing for me even to allow my MIL to hold them. as for making food to helpt he mother recover? i know it's a chinese thing, but really...ANY food will do that!
again, i'm so sorry about your experiences. i hope that if you have another child you will save your money and put it towards your child's education or something like that instead.
good luck! |