| barb,
Thanks very much for your words of wisdom. I keep feeling guilty as I wasn't sure whether I am doing the best for bubs. he is a very chinese/hong kong baby and loves to stay up late ( for us it works as well since we are both working full time and get home late), and he wakes up later as well. I figured that as long he gets a nap in the morning and a longer one in the afternoon ( and so getting more or less the right amount of sleep) and sleeps reasonably well a night, then it should be fine.
I got confused by the consultant who said I wasn't following schedule for bubs and hence not sleeping as well as he should be. Bubs is not great with sleep and he does sometimes have erractic nap times and bed times , but I am not sure whether its just him, or is it true that I am not following a strict schedule starting at 7am.
Barb, bubs has a fluid schedule which means he does the same things each day in the same order but not always at the same time - would you recommend that we give more structure in terms of the timing?  |