| I think you have to decide what works best for you and your family.
I personaly love routine, and hate days where things are out of sync.
I tried a few less strict methods of trying to get my little one on a routine, but they didn't even come close to working.
Initially I hated the idea of Gina Ford, but in the end it worked beautifully for my son, and he was so much happier and more settled once it was established.
I left a few things out, I really didn't need to be told when to eat!
And I don't believe in a completely dark room in the day.
My son also has always happily slept in his pram when we are out if it's his sleep time, which has meant not being tied to the house.
I also did 8pm-8am sleep pattern for the night, and shifted the naps by an hour.
It all depends on the individual (parent more so than baby).
If you don't need a routine, than your baby probably doesn't need one either.
There are an infinite number of ways to parent your children, try what will make life easier for YOUR family, and don't let people make you feel bad for your choice.
There is no right or wrong way, just what works for both you and your baby.  |