| Hi all, thanks for your comments.
reason why I suddenly became so concerned about routine is because bubs is acting very unlike himself. he was sick tiwce in a month, and I can only attribute his behaviour to having been sick, and things thrown out of pattern.
biggest problem now is with sleep - he has gone back to being held to sleep ( previously the shush-pat would work), and no amount of consoling would help if he is in the cot. he screams his head off if not picked up.
Second biggest problem is multiple night wakings - we are getting no sleep and although my helper sleeps with him ( I work full time during day), my husband and I are all not getting enough quality sleep either ( I do sometimes wake up worrying about him even though I don't personally get up to check on him).
I was told the night wakings are to do with not having a routine- I don't know whether this is the right reason or not . So I'm desperately asking around !!! |