| Hi,
Oh dear what a time for all this to happen. Where abouts do you live in HK? Do you have any family members that come and stay to help whilst you get a new helper arranged? I have asked my helper if she has a friend she can recommend looking for work. Have you considered contacting Rent a Mum, they are more expensive but may be able to get someone to you quickly and in the short term.
My 18 month old daughter often shouts for me, and refuses to eat if I am home and the helper trys to feed her. However if I am out she just gets on with it. Maybe it is best to keep the helper out of the way when your husband is looking after your daughter. She may cry, however at least she is with her dad who loves her, and she will get used to it. And you know she is not ill or sick. It will hard, and I feel for you. My daughter crys if its not me that does things for her - but she does get over it quickly.
Good luck |