| I agree i have just had baby no 2 and my 18 month old is great with others if iam out but if i am here he only wants me and cries a lot. Once your helper is gone your husband will be fine and they only take a few days to adjust. It is hard being pregnant with a little one - i was pretty exhausted - I almost feel better now - less sleep but not lugging around a big tummy. don't worry it will all work out but try and get some help around the house - maybe you can find a helper in the section on here or asia expat they are often availabe at short notice if finishing contracts. mine started within a week and is excelent so you can do it (although not what you want to be doing right now) maybe leave it until after birth |