| i have 2 boys too (16mths apart) so far there has been no jealousy. like sleuth said just too much attention when the little one is sleeping and big brother wants him up. we make sure we dont compare the two and ask relatives to do the same. i usually try to take care of the older one's needs first. i.e. make sure he's got his own snack before i feed the little one, diaper changed, etc. |