we had the same problem trying to agree to anything. We had two rules that it had to be a 2
pr more sylabel name becasue our last name is only one sylabel. We wanted traditional names instead of of made up names with weird spellings that are so popular now. We both agreed on these points. Every name I suggested he didn't like, and my husband wouldn't go throught he book to say what he did like. Picking a name was very stressful and not fun and I thought it would be fun! Finally I made him go throught he book and make a list of the names he liked, as did I and one of the names match both lists so that was what we picked for a girls name. he never did get through the boys names (we were sure it would be a girl). In the end we had a boy and no name, so he took 2 names off of my short list and I picked between them. I really liked the name but worried for about a month that my husband didn't really like it and that we picked the wrong name because we had done it on the fly, but then I got over it.
Our second child was harder because now I also needed a name that went well with the first child too. We picked a boys name very easily but had no girl name( becaseu he still wanted the one we picked the first time, but I didn't like it anymore). Luckily it was a boy again.
We picked English first names and English family middle names and My husbands paretns picked their chinese names, so each child has 4 different names on their birth certificate. Picking the chinese names was a whole fiascoe too because his parents would not agree on anything so they each made lists too, He dad picked the first child, and his mom the second
Good Luck!!!!