| i also find that sometimes, my hubby feels like he's between a rock and a hard place...
his wife on one hand wanting things done one way and his mother on the other wanting them done another way.
that's not a nice place to be and it can build resentment on all sides...wife feeling not being backed up by hubby... mother feeling not being backed up by son... son feeling....leave me the heck out of it!
don't get me wrong, my m-i-l is great, BUT there are definitely A LOT of cultural things to deal with.
nicole's suggestions are spot on... you need to deal with it NOW as a couple BEFORE any in-laws descend upon you. |