| Totally agree with everything Fhurley says, your attitude is a good one. Our helpers are part of the family and a stand in for my husband and I in all respects (e.g. not just discpline, but also responsible for encouraging development, teaching new skills and lots of playtime together etc.).
A recommendation is always best, but if that's not possible then a comprehensive interview with lots of 'what would you do if...' to establish general common sense and to ensure you are on the same page with regard to key issues.
The issue of trust is tricky, instincts are rarely wrong and she would hopefully inspire a good rapport and confidence from the outset. Definitely include time watching interaction with your children - someone who clearly enjoys 'playing' would be important to me. |