[Olusia]

Dear Cheekster,
I am so sorry you are disappointed in your child's class at IMS.
My 22 months old daughter joined IMS in July and I have been able to see her progressing in the class very nicely but I do see what you mean saying that the classes are very structured and the teachers are very serious about the classroom rules.
Generally, as I learned, in Montessori the rules are very important as they teach the child about the order which is so important to them. Montessorians believe that the children of our kids' age are in the sensitive period of order and thrive in the environment that is organized, beautiful and child - friendly. That is why Montessori classes are all about the child. If you look around the classroom you will see all those little materials that fit just right to the little hand ? little puzzle, little sponges, little pitchers, spoons...
The kids are so determined to master the environment around them and do what they see us doing. Here they can do it without the restrictions of an adult - size home where everything is soooo big and inaccessible. But they have to be safe in there and that is why the teachers have to be serious about the rules. A little chair is still big for the child and it should be pushed with two hands to handle it properly and not to put strain on their little muscles. They are still learning about coordination of movements and it is easier for them to use both hands to support the materials than one. And it works!
It is so adorable to see how my child builds up her confidence in her ability to be independent although she is not yet 2.My daughter learned pushing her chair in and now at our home she is always doing that in her own room :) she also brings the materials back when she is done working with them and is very enthusiastic about washing her hands and teeth by herself. I am so proud seeing her putting her shoes on all be herself.
Montessori is nothing like playgroups that we are accustomed to, I know, but it concentrates on teaching children how to feel self ? sufficient from the very early stage. I am sure you saw your little one observing you and coping what you do. I have always thought that they firmly believe that they should learn from us.
So please give the class a chance and please speak to one of the teachers. They are so very friendly and helpful. Also, the Parent - Teacher Association at IMS is always ready to help and give advice so please feel free to call one of the Moms that work with PTA.
I believe you will be happy in Montessori if you learn more about it as it is really the right program for our dear little ones.