Hello - I also had a very similar experienced with a very popular Dr. in HK and never went back (it may be the same one). She was very rude and insensitive. I have changed to a new Dr. who both my husband and I really like:
Dr. Patrick Chan
MBBS MRCOG FHKCOG FHKAM
Suite 501, Tak Shing House
20 Des Voeux Road
Central
Hong Kong
Tel: 2522 2500