[MayC]

My daughter will be a flower girl again for my husband's bestfriend's wedding.

This will be her second time.

I've heard that in the Chinese tradition, this is not allowed.

Is this correct?

[zoey]

Twice is ok! Old Chinese say if a person has been a flower girl three times or more, she will not be able to get married. Believe it or not.....

[carang]

i was a flower girl twice when i was a child... i'm not chinese, but i married an awesome chinese man!

[AndreaY]

Being flower girl is not a chinese tradition, have not heard of anything about restriction on the no. of times one can be flower girl. There is a saying, but not necessary Chinese, that one should not be bridesmaid more than twice. Think that's more to do with if 2 good friends (assuming of same age) are married and have asked you, for a 3rd time, it means you may be sitting on the shelf when the rest of your friends are married.