Hi,
I am jenayds's sister and can I start by encouraging you to keep breastfeeding, you are doing a great job despite all the challenges. Breastmilk is by far the best thing you can feed your baby and is actually way more nutritious than any formula out there. Sadly many doctors do not have training on the advantages of breastfeeding and so give bad advice. The WHO recommends exclusive breastfeeding for the 1st 6 months then continuing to breastfeed after solids are introduced.
I had thrush and a tongue tied baby. My son's frenulum was only tied slightly but I was in so much pain we got it clipped. He was only about 1 week old, so as the LLL leader mentioned, it healed very quickly. It was more traumatic for us to watch as his parents but he nursed immediately and it helped it to heal quickly.
The thrush was more of a challenge to treat but be assured that it is conquerable and you will be able to nurse without pain one day! It is horribly painful, you have my complete sympathy. The white tongue is a classic sign of thrush.
First, do not worry about your milk, it is still the best thing to feed the baby. Second, watch out for a bright red nappy rash, that can be the fungal infection coming out in the poo and you may need to treat it with antifungal medication.
The way I treated my thrush was following the advice of a Canadian breastfeeding expert, Dr Jack Newman. You can read his advice on thrush (candida) on
http://www.drjacknewman.com/help/Candida-Protocol.asp. I used gentian violet, the all purpose nipple ointment and took grapefruit seed extract tablets and acidopholous tablets. I also ate a lot of plain yoghurt. He gives you the recipe for the ointment and I had to get a Dr to give me a prescription and the chemist then made it up for me. I kept taking the acidophilus and GSE for as long as I was nursing, even after I got rid of the trush, to keep it from coming back. I got them from health food stores in Canada, where I then lived.
Have you tried pumping after feeding to empty your breasts and keep up your supply? My babies refused bottles but my husband fed them expressed milk from a teaspoon when I was out.
La Leche League is a great source of support and their website also has info on thrush:
http://www.llli.org/NB/NBthrush.html
Good luck!
wombat girl