hi mish
i wanted to let you know there are some great websites where there are bulletin boards filled with women in your shoes.
check out:

The Oldest and Largest Infertility (INCIID) Adoption. Parenting, Pregnancy online Community
IVF Connections
RESOLVE: The National Infertility Association: homepage

i'm glad you went to see dr lo, he IS lovely. especially when there is male IF issues, IUI is often just the answer.

you're right, it is full on, i hope dr lo explained that you have lots of options. if you search this forum you can find names of acupuncturists. dr lo's clinic might even have one if that is something you are interested in.

good luck.