Thanks for your reply
Our situation is very similar. my husband is the only son and i had no brother.
so both have a desire of have a boy.
however i waited enought to try for #2, my daughter will be 4.5 years old when #2 would be born
school fees is a big pressure here...i was thinking to just opt fpr public schools (atleast for first 2-3 years)...other than that i have a helper and i think even taking care of 3 will not be so difficult
the thing is that m hubby wanmted boy, he never said so explicitly but i understand his feelings.
I think the real risk for me is the gender of #3.....
anyways ,hoping for a healthy daughter for now................