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I need a rant & advice

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    Genkimum.... believe me, there are days where i do think i'm going to lose my mind. when i get to that point, i have hubby take over for a few minutes. i go and have a hot shower. then come back refreshed.

    i find that the more stressed i get, the less work he does, so it helps for me to lose the stress.

    in the past i bought a digital timer. i would set it for 1-2 minutes. we would make a game of it. see how many answers he could write in that time. then set it again to see if he could beat his "score".... i think i'll have to dig it out again, because it really worked for us.

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    Quote Originally Posted by thanka2 View Post
    Yes, you don't like how he did it but I promise you that this issues is going to resurface again and again unless you can really respect his point of view and come to a functional compromise. I hope he also will respect your view.
    Same here. Yes, the issue resurface time and again! What does a guy need to do so that his wife feels that he really respects her point of view? Or should I ask how do I know I am respecting her pov, or not?

    Advice from thanka2 and any of you much appreciated.

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    you need to come to a compromise. that means you EACH need to give up something, or at least agree on whatever decision you make.

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