i don't know about you.....i would rather regret doing something and changing my mind than not ever trying it!

it's an adventure! i can tell you right now, that if you come with the wrong attitude, you will hate it. you have no reason to try to enjoy it.... whether or not you make a good life here depends a lot upon attitude.

why not agree to give it a couple of years and then revisit the "where should we live" question?