Hi everyone, first time dad here. My wife just gave birth last week. We haven't been able to sleep at all and my wife is going back to work in September so have 5 weeks.

She is not producing enough milk because she is tired. Also the doctor told us to give 30ML formula which another pediatrician told us is too little. Overall a bad setup. We don't have a helper because the wife does not want so I think I am going to hire a day-time part time helper and a night-time maternity nurse.

Can anyone recommend one or help suggest some alternatives? I'd like someone to take care of the baby at night so we can both be healthy and sleep but worried about level of care for DD