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How long did you have your first kid after marriage?

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    hyzhenry is offline Registered User
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    How long did you have your first kid after marriage?

    I got married about 2 weeks back, and I feel I wanna have a kid. My wife is not super eager, but she's okay with having kids but doesn't want to have them so soon as she want to spend some time with me before having kids. I'm also a little worry in terms of the finances as I'm a business owner for about 2 years plus and my income is not stable yet.

    I'm worried about conception as well as my wife is 34 this year and I'm 28.


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    avaya is offline Registered User
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    hi hyzhenry,

    I had my first and only baby after 5 years of marriage. I must tell you it's always good to give sometime before having a baby. it's a 360 degree change in life and schedule, and you can only realize when u have a baby to look after. your heart and mind revolves around your bundle of joy. it's just my opinion having babies right after marriage can cause alot of stress. I really had a very good time with my husband and now i am mom who doesn't regret giving time to the baby who are always super demanding. But that doesn't mean having a baby right after marriage is something wrong. it all depends on how much ur prepared to start a family as it cannot be undo.

    best of luck !


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