And I don't mean looking after your children and your home!
I currently live in Singapore, am a housewife and mum and don't have any help - just the way I like it.
However it's not been easy making friends here as most people have helpers, even if they don't work, which makes absolutely no sense to me. Luckily I've made some like-minded friends but have to admit they were hard to find. Not having a helper is like a taboo and I hate having to justify my choices, especially to Westerners who never had help before anyway.
I was just wondering, as we may come to HK next year, is the situation is similar? This group isn't very active, which is probably a strong clue!