we place him sideways actually. but his arms still flail... and he jolt himself up to sleep. then we have to start all over again, rocking him to sleep. the hefty 8 kg. does anyone know how to unteach the baby? i dun believe in letting him cry it out. also i dunno how to place him on the bed letting him settle himself casue he always shouts out to us to carry him... and we end up at 3/ 4 am having to carry / rock him with his pacifier in his mouth and sleep.